Overall it was a pretty good trip.
It was so sad leaving our puppy..my husband may or may not have teared up a bit..haha
So we got in Tuesday night ns time...and visited with the kids for a bit...then pretty much just went to bed.
Wednesday was a busy day...we had the funeral home stuff in the afternoon and evening.
It was nice to see all our family there. Oh, so here's a story for ya.haha. So I was standing outside of the room we had at the funeral home, with my husband, looking obiviously prego. And this older man from church, who was there for other reasons, came up to me and was like "Miss Ehler" and I was like actually its Mrs.Nelson now, and introduced Norm. So this guy goes on to tell Norm how he knows me from way back..and that he could tell him stories about me. Norm assured him that he knows everything about me, and this guy was like I doubt it. So then it was way akward, and we were like ok..see ya later. Norm was like he is the most offensive guy I have ever met. So then..when we came back in the evening...Norm came with my dad..and they got there before me. Norm and my dad ran into this guy again, and he says to Norm "if you knew the things I know about your wife, you might have thought twice before marrying her". I'd like to know what this guy thinks he knows about me...This really upset Norm, and I guess he just walked away. And then the guy goes to my dad "those Alberta boys, taking advantage of our East Coast girls. Ummmm...last time I checked..im the one who moved out west and decided to marry Norm. I just thought it was way uncalled for..especially considering what else we were trying to deal with at the time.
Anyhow...Thursday morning was my grandpa's funeral. It was a very nice service. He worked for the government, so they had honor guard..I think thats what its called...all these guys dressed up in uniform lining the steps as you walked into the church. It was a more uplifting funeral than I expected. I sang "Jesus Savior, Pilot Me" with my cousin on guitar and with him doing harmony. It turned out really good. I just kept thinking how much I wished my grandfather could be there to see his grandchildren speak, and sing and stuff. He would have been so proud. Norm assures me that he was there though. I had to sit in the front row of the church with my cousins who were doing readings and stuff. So I held it together pretty good through the whole service. But during the last song, which was "How great thou art"... the family had to walk out of the church, and as soon as I had Norm at my side, I totally broke down. Everyone on the way out of the church was a total blur. I think up until that point, I had tried to keep it together for my moms sake. And with all the excitment of flying home on such short notice, I hadnt let it hit me. Anyhow..my grandfather wants his ashes burried at sea. So we're waiting to do that. After the funeral all the family went back to my grandfathers house. Its sooooo sad. He lived there for over 40 years, but never owned the place. He's been paying rent on it all this time!! When his landlord died, he had in his will that Bill was to be given the first option to buy, but at tax assessment price. Which is way less than its worth, so the estate guys wouldnt sell it to him. They've given us till June 1st to get all his stuff out. Its so stressful! There is sooooooo much stuff in that house!!
Anyhow..the rest of our trip went well. We went frenchy's shopping, it was Norms first time going since we dont have it out here. We went to the beach one day. Went down to Chebucto Head. Visited with family. And looked at land for sale. I think Norm enjoyed NS even more this time:) We have an amazing secret..that I cant wait to tell!! ahh..I just have to wait one more month...so keep checking back:)
So here's some pics from our trip....
All the grandchildren after my grandpa's funeral.
Mom, Jordan, Tara and Me at Chebucto Head.
Norm and I with the kids at Queensland
Norms new friend he made when we were looking for land. I wasnt with him when he took this picture. I told him he was crazy though!!!
And finally..while we were away Norms sister Lindsay got engaged!! So congrats to her! Her and Kyle are getting married August 15th!! We are so happy for them. Its gonna be an exciting summer!
Well hope you were able to make it through this whole post! haha
Im off to remove wall paper in the baby room before it gets TOO hot..its suposed to be 32 today!






